1. Long, preferably thick, hair. C.f. Strongbow (and half the people in the comic), and Utena (and half the people in that anime).
2. Tactility. I like being petted. DO NOT SURPRISE ME. If I don't know who you and am not very well known to be okay with you and you come up and just start touching me? I'll probably break your goddamn arm, or at least a rib.
3. Nice Shoulders. I like wide shoulders, with nice definition. Bridgette Lin has good shoulders. Most male bodybuilders do not, but some male martial artists do. I like the slim muscle combination. Mmmmmmmm pretty. ^_^